where to try to kill your mind...

aum saneescharaaya nama:

8th--- the house of the great lord of silence...of death..the destroyer(12th) of the mind(5th) of your mind(5th)..!

so how to destroy the 5th of 5th?

choose the way of the 8th house.

here are some tips to choose the place of meditation:

if your 8th house is mesha..it needs lot of movement...
may be pradikshanas(circumambulation) and mountain climbing with prayers help..

if your 8th house is simha..leo, a cave can be a great place for meditation..

if its karaktaka or cancer: a vacant beach should serve the purpose

if it is kanya or virgo..a river side?

taurus or rishabha : a fertile field?

marital discord- propitiations

do 108 times every day:

aum

nama:shivaabhyaam

navayouvanaabhyaam

parasparaashlishtava purdharaabhyaam

nagendrakanyaavrshaketanaabhyaam

namonama:sankaraparvateebhyaam

2) do lalita sahasranamam with family atleast 3 days in a week, friday without fail.

3) cook and serve food for your partners with love and prayers